Boyfriend generally not interested in having sex. Why?

is this a deal breaker?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Crude suggestion but I think it might work if you don't get totally pissed off: watch pornography together.

    Unless he has a major libido problem, his problem is probably more to do with sexual stimulus and wasting most of his libido on his hand than with you.

    Pornography, while a crude stimulus that might really upset women, will tend to get him in the mood really quickly.

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    • [...] his problem is [/has] probably more to do with sexual stimulus and wasting most of his libido on his hand than with you. [...]

Most Helpful Girl

  • He could also be unattracted to you, a man never turns down sex. Probably doesn't want you physically you anymore. Detaching himself from you.

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What Guys Said 15

  • he may just not have a high libido

    is it a deal breaker? that depends on whether or not you feel that the lack of sexual intimacy is a deal breaker for you

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  • all depends on how much sex you guys used to and still have. If he just doesn't want to have sex then he's probably got a lot of stuff going on up there that he can't focus down there. Or there's a possibility that he's cheating.

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  • Yes, it's a deal breaker. One benefit of an exclusive relationship is having your sexual needs met conveniently and safely. You are not getting that benefit. You can be friends with him, but you can't be in an exclusive relationship with him. That would just get you a lifetime of frustration.

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  • I think you need to talk to him, there could be umpteen different reasons. To just assume he has an issue is short sighted.

    He could be holding out because he wants to be really sure. Some guys don't take sex lightly, because once you go there it becomes a huge connection.

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  • He might not want being labeled as "only wanting sex" and restrain himself.

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  • Deal breaker. Probably low testosterone

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  • i would want to know why

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  • Either he is gay, or you are unattractive.

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  • Low sex drive or he doesn't find you appealing.

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  • What does he say to explain?

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  • Usually I'd say so

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  • If he's stressed then that's the reason.

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  • Low sex drive or he isn't attracted to you

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  • How long have you been dating him?

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  • Low testosterone or he is losing interest in you, I doubt it's age since I'm always horny

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What Girls Said 2

  • It could be toonnnsss of work fro him or he cums too fast.

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  • Stress , low sex drive, masturbation or gay

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