We started dating in September 2015. We met on Tinder. After about a month of talking I basically moved in with her at her parents house. We were living together for about 2 months and then decided that we wanted to have kids. We didn't really talk about it to much we just knew we loved each other and knew we wanted a child. So we got pregnant. She is now 9 months pregnant and almost ready to pop, in our own apartment now. I flew back to my parents place to visit them a few weeks ago. While i was at home I decided to download the app "kik" where i portrayed myself as a fake person and talked to girls sent pictures of myself and talked. I flew back to my fiancee and it stopped. 1 week later I went back to see my parents and did the same thing.
Now, 3 weeks later she went on my iPad to put a sexy pic on there. She ended up finding the "recently deleted" album and found that I had left pictures of myself on there. She waited until i came home and told me about it over text. That night i held her and she cried and I cried a lot... all night. I made a terrible mistake. She doesn't uno what to do and neither do it.
Please help me. Any way. I just want to keep my fiancee and my baby girl thats on the way.
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly, you both sound crazy. You were together TWO MONTHS before deciding to have a kid? What the fuck, man? You're both impulsive fools and your poor kid is gonna pay the price for that.
I honestly don't even have any advice because it's too far along to abort so you're kind of fucked. Enjoy a lifetime of drama and please try not to fuck your kid up too badly!6
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Most Helpful Guy
All you can do is make a very, very heartfelt apology and ask her to forgive you. Trust is a very fragile thing and once it's broken, it takes a lot of time and a huge amount of work to put it back together. Keep working and hopefully she'll move on as well.2