My ex messaged me saying he wanted to be friends?

Ok here's some background.
We broke up a long time ago, I'd say 4 years ago.
We dated for 2 years, and I found out he was cheating on me with one of his "girl" friends. I broke it off with him and went on with life. We hadn't contact each other for these past 4 YEARS. And he suddenly messages me he wanted to be friends again.
What should I do?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Ignore his bitch ass, he's probably in a low place and missing you. Good, he's a scumbag and he deserves to feel like shit. Don't deal with someone who cheated on you.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I'd be so confused and ask him what made him reach out after so long.

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What Guys Said 2

  • No, you did the right thing back then so far you have ignored that's good. Just continue that behavior. I would suggest block his number as well.

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  • ignore him. he doesn't want to be 'just friends'. he wants to have sex with you for awhile and then cheat on you when he finds another girlfriend.

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What Girls Said 3

  • Well do you guys want to be friends?

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  • Reject the offer

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  • It's okay, as long as you know what you're getting yourself into.

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