We broke up a few months ago due to distance and arguing/stress, and went NC. He would look at my snapstory everyday. I tried reaching out, saying hello and that I was sorry it ended badly and I missed having him around which he ignored. I blocked his username on tumblr recently so he couldn't follow my posts, but it still allows direct access on another device. I recently installed a tracker on my tumblr blog, and it turns out he views it up to 20 a day, almost hourly, from when he gets up to when he goes to sleep. He has to go out of his way to do this since I blocked his tumblr username. Why the hell won't he speak to me directly after I've reached out?
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he want to talk to you, but first he want make you feel guilty and regret about what happened... so he can come later and give you a list of things that he wants you to do it for him... at the same time he wants to see if there's someone else in your life.
the point is... he wants you to beg him so he can feel better and feels the victory.
no matter what happened... don't let him win.