We broke up with my boyfriend last week , he was lovable 3 weeks ago , and then changed completely and gave me the cold shoulder saying he needed 'space etc
I told him to say it was absolutely over and he says ' i can't say that , i just need time and have my feelings together blablabla '
I have a lots of my things in his flat plus my Dog too , (we were not living together ) i am looking for a new house so he keep it until i find one.
I had to Come to pick up something , and i had let him know , i just did not wanted to see him.
Today his housemates (she is a girl and we are very friend which annoy him) told me he says bad things behind my back
Like ' dont let her Come into my room '
Then his friends and him says I was 'obsess with him'
My friends says 'well no actualy she had a thing recently with a boy ' (not true;)) and be says 'what , when? what day?'
Saying i am crazy etc
Saying i come to feed the dog only to see him
I am actualy trying not to see him , he is mean with me and everyone's at the moment , bursting in rage over nothing with his staff and friends
His life ks pretty depressing and lame , and honest! y i find it was that he says bad stuff about me and being an hypocrite.
I dont know what to think , i would never thought he would act like that especially since the broke up was painful for me and he seems pretty down about it too
Help ! Guys why would you do this?
Ex bad mouthing me to his friends and common friends?
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You learn more about a person either during an argument or when the relationship ends. Bad mouthing you shows his immaturity.. Just be thankful you're not still with him
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