Okay so here's the thing me and my boyfriend broke up last night (not putting why) but somehow my ex (my sons father) found out, he has a girlfriend their pretty close but have never done anything sexual... As soon as my ex found out I was single again he started sending me dirty texts asking for pictures and if we could meet up for sex, I have all message proof but I'm not sure what to do I feel really guilty that he's doing this while he has a girlfriend should I show her? Or should I leave it? And also he's been promising to get involved with his son if I have sex with him? I don't know what to do help!
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WTF! Seriously your son's father is a piece of work! He helped create this child, he needs to help support him. Having a kid is a responsibility. Not just something you can opt in and out of whenever the woman that he helped to get pregnant is sleeping with him.
I swear some guys are just the worst!
Whatever you do, do not sleep with him! He only wants one thing and is using your son as a way to manipulate you into getting sex. That is one of the lowest things I have heard. And to make matters worse, he has a girlfriend while he is doing all of this!
The father has an obligation to be there for his son. He helped create this life, now he needs to be there to support it. Regardless of whether he is getting sex from you or not. That is irrelevant!