I broke up with him only because he got extremely distant.
He told me at the time I loved him more than he loved me.
Cut to a year and a half later... we reconnect and he says he still loves me.
I tell him I still love him and never stopped.
Cue the awkwardness and confusion that ended our relationship in the first place. He doesn't say anything to me... I text him, he writes back but it's not the same... he seems distant again,
I'm totally confused about how to talk to him, and I need your advice on what to say.
Most Helpful Guy
Sure, everyone and their mother will say don't bother, but I am a hopeless fighter for love...
So, as you can tell, he is distant. I can only think of three reasons as to why he is so distant...
1. He is afraid of reconnecting with the ex girlfriend who abandoned him because he just might have feelings for you that he probably wouldn't want to be seen rejected one again.
2. He is attempting to move on in an act of self-preservation.
3. He might be talking or dating another woman, so that could be where his attention is or he might have a busy life.
You didn't give me too much to go off of, but this is what I think.0