So spouse filed for divorce about a month ago. She said there's irreconcilable differences. But told me she wanted to remain friends. And that I can try to win her back and she'd maybe then take me back. So I'm conflicted... why be friends and say there's no reconciliation but maybe turning hell inside out there's a chance? I asked if she'd try marriage counseling she said no. So I'm very confused.
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She told you she wanted to remain friends to try to keep peace during this very trying time in both of your lives. What is the root cause? Have you determined that, or do you just not get along? Was there an affair? If she is not receptive to counseling or trying to work out your problems, chances are she is not taking a hard look at herself and what she did wrong to bring to the table... Don't be confused or conflicted. Some things are not worth the anxiety, if you really feel strongly on winning her back, step back, stay quiet, and do things to keep your mind occupied, and if she sees you are going on, she might just be the one to try to win you back. Best of Luck0