Who do you think get over break ups faster girls or guys? If two people really had a great relationship and friendship before everything went sour do you think its more likely for them to reconcile. From my experience and from stories i've heard, it always seems to impact the guy more heavily at the start, but once he starts to get over it and recuperate the girl seems to suffer for it and regret what happened in the long run. Anyone else think this is true?
Most Helpful Girl
LOL. Comics and memes say the opposite.
Most Helpful Guy
Whoever can accept it. Personally, once it's over for me and I accept it I'll move on quickly. I let go of all the "what if's" and "why's". It's all about acceptance really. If you accept the break up sooner, you'll get over it sooner. I don't care who is happier. I don't care who finds another person sooner. Once it's accepted I just live my life without regard to her or the past relationship.
That's part of the reason all of my exes have doubled back at one time or another. If for nothing more than to apologize or to check up on me. Because I'm content and they're dying to know how I'm "really" doing or who I'm with. I've even had exes suspect "he's not really happy without me. He's just pretending!". It's like... no. I'm good lol. Maybe if they came back a few months before, but it's always when I'm good with myself again they come back and another girl has entered the scene that they want to "just see how things are goin". Even if they have a new guy.0