Yesterday I agreed to a non commitment relationship and asked him what he wanted. He said that I should avoid him or I will get hurt. I said thanks to my bad relationships in the past I won't get hurt. And I woke up to this this morning: I sleep around and I was unfaithful to all my exes. That's why I am single. Would love for us to remain friends, But I don't think I am the one you are looking for. You are young and beautiful and you deserve better.
Most Helpful Guy
it sounds like he is very self-actualized and knows that he isn't really a great potential partner1
Most Helpful Girl
He's saying he won't change for you and in the end he'll treat you the same way your ex did. So to prevent that, it's best he doesn't contunue to see you .
Although his conscience is telling him it would be wrong to hurt you, he has no self-control over his emotions and desires. His lack of control is more powerful than his conscience1