Top 10 things to do after a break up to make you feel better?


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  • For my last breakup... well, she cheated on me and I threw her out of the house. So I had a lot of anger over that. I used it in the gym and tried to improve myself. It worked well.

    I also spent time with friends, and played a lot of video games. No contact with her. Out with friends, making new friends, flirting but never trying to take anyone home. Waited a few months, stuck to porn and good old left hand when I needed it, and didn't try to date until I wasn't angry anymore.

    I felt, during that relationship, that she was making me pay for what other men had done to her. I was very afraid of taking my anger and hurt out on a new girlfriend, so I held off. Six months later I met the woman I married.

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    • My story is similar like yours but just don't know where it's going to end.

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What Guys Said 9

  • 1. No contact
    2. Improve yourself
    3. Hang out with friends
    4. Watch comedies basically no romance shit
    5. Start that project you said you were gonna do the last few years but never have cuz you kept on making excuses
    6. Pick up a new hobby
    7. Play games or sports. Virtual or real
    8. Go shopping
    9. Gonna sound rude but look at others peoples problems and drama and be like "well at least my life is not that bad" we all do it. Its called going on Facebook 😂
    10. Invent a time machine so you can go back and slap your younger self and tell her to not date this guy

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  • 1. Get drunk
    2. Hang out with friends
    3. Exercise
    4. Having meaningless fun sex
    5. Play games
    6. Binge eat
    7. Porn
    8. Go on a trip

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  • still trying to figure that out, but waiting for a new girl to come along is basically the only thing i can think of.

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  • Completely cut all contact with the ex and have nothing to do with them ever again.
    Delete all pictures of them, throw away any pics.

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  • Go on this site. I completely forget my break up and start remembering how humanity needs more help than me.

    Seriously though... every break up I've ran to here and answered questions. It helps a lot.

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  • Top ten? Lol Letterman retired. Time is the best remedy.

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  • There are a few things you can do.

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  • 1) watch sports
    2) go to the mall
    3) play video games
    4) start talking to other girls
    5) masturbate
    6) pizza
    7) philly cheese stake

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  • I usually just have sex with someone.

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What Girls Said 11

  • 1) cry , if I need to. .. it's therapeutic

    2) meet up with friends

    3) Go to the gym

    4) try something new I. e. hobby

    5) write a letter, I'll never send, to my ex about everything I feel ,( I'd never send it tho lol )

    6) cut all means of contact

    7) remove all traces of him from myself

    8) do a lot of self-talk , to try to heal

    9) focus all my time, energy , thoughts and emotions on moving on instead of focusing all my thoughts on him

    10) Focus on being single again , create a new future without him being part of it

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  • 1- Reflect
    2- Process
    3-Grieve
    4- Write a long letter to them, but DONT send it, just get feelings out
    5-Listen to sappy songs
    6- get back into a hobby or sport
    7- meet new people
    8-Celebrate You
    9- Keep the good memories
    10 Go find a new MAN-

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  • eat candy and ice cream
    hang out with ur friends
    go shopping
    long drives
    have sex with someone else
    go dancing
    get drunk
    deep clean ur house
    change ur hair style (color or cut)
    get rid of all of their things u have!!!

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  • No contact
    Talking to other guys (not dating, we don't want a rebound )
    Having fun with friends and family

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  • Eat
    Write
    Read
    Play video games
    Go to the library
    Surf the net
    Bake
    Decorate cake
    Drive my car with the radio blasting

    I don't think that's 10 things but that's what I do

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  • Hang with friends
    Drink with friends
    Talk to friends
    Meet people
    Block your ex
    Cut off contact
    Remember why you broke up
    It's an ex, so you'll find better
    Improve youself
    Discover new things

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  • Go have fun doing something you love to do, cut your hair or dye it and totally change your look, meet new people, focus on yourself and better yourself, do hobbies you never found the time to do but now can.

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  • If you wanna view mytake, I just made one of this topic :)

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  • 1. Play IDFWU loudly while aggressively singing along and tearing twizzlers with my teeth.
    2. cry

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    • That doesn't sound healthy

    • @cchris989 That's insanely healthy. Once you let yourself purge all the negative emotions, you're purer. Then you can do what everyone else is suggesting.

  • That is a hard question 😂😂
    Becuase i've never been through a break up

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  • 1. sleep with his best friend
    2. sleep with his brother
    3. sleep with randoms
    4. drink
    5. cry it out
    6. eat tons of food
    7. make over
    8. buy a new wardrobe
    9. go on dates with everyone
    10. repeat 1-9

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