How can you tell if a guy is serious on courting you?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • You remember those guys who weren't serious about you, how they swept you off your feet, how they seemed so confident, how they told you exactly what you wanted to hear, how it seemed too good to be true?

    Well, it was too good to be true. A guy who's serious about you wouldn't ooze confidence and perfectly scripted compliments. He would be a bit nervous talking to you because he actually feels like he has something to lose. He might give you a sweet compliment but it comes out all wrong, his conversation may be less smooth but if you pay attention you'll notice he'll ask deeper questions that are about you as a person.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • If he's serious he's willing to invest more time and money into you

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    • Terrible advice...

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    • @alfonsosloan45 No I'm not... what's wrong with liking a guy who puts time and money into you?

    • @openthedoors

      A well-off guy could easily spend $100 on you and still just want to get in your pants, while a guy who doesn't have a lot of money or just believes in equality/not being a sucker would not even though you mean everything to him. The spending time part is irrelevant: a player would spend a lot of time with you as well (and the serious guy may try to limit the time he spends with you to not come across as "too eager"), he would just give up after a while, but that while is long enough to drive away a serious guy as well if you make him wait that long before showing your affection.

What Guys Said 3

  • File a restraining order. If he's serious, then he'll keep pursuing you.

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  • Lol no one courts anymore

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  • Tell him no sex if you still interested then

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