I'm talking about if the couple are still in love, been together 3+ years, the break up was amicable (no fighting etc) and the break up was very circumstantial.
How long does it take a man to miss their ex girlfriend? and how can i get him to take me back?
Most Helpful Guy
Once upon a time, I got to know a very cute girl that I liked from the day we met as kids... We weren't living that close to each other but I got to see her occasionally... I'd sleep in my aunts house because she was living like a street down her house so I can play with her all day... As it happened, we fell in love with each other and dated for some time, and we developed a strong relationship... We lost our virginities to each other and I loved her more each day... And one day, out of nowhere we broke up because of "reasons" and we did not fight... She asked if we can be friends and I said yes... I was devastated but didn't dare show that to her... I avoided her and hadn't seen her for months... I went like on a road trip around the countries I live in and told everyone I know not to call me because I wouldn't answer and nobody except mom and her didn't call... She emailed me, messaged me, called me numerous times but I didn't answer any attempt to reach me... I know she started dating almost immidiatelly after we broke up so I don't think she wanted our relationship back... Long story short, I came back, learned when she works and suddenly went to the place she worked at the time. I walked in the store and she saw me. She walked up, slapped the hell out of me and started crying a lot. She then wrapped her hands around me and we had like the longest hug... I see her now pretty often since we still go to the same places we went as a couple and she dates other guys... I never got over her... I missed her from the moment we broke up and the road trip was in order to forget her... I date other girls too but never got into a relationship after her... Even if I get into a relationship with someone I highly doubt I will love them as much as I love her... It hurts me day and night... When I see her happy with her friends, boyfriend, it stabs me in the heart... I will love her until I die, whether we get back together or continue living as friends...
I guess the opinions answer your question... Someone doesn't miss the ex at all, some start missing their ex after some time and some miss them immidiatelly and never get over them... And about your other question...
You just have to wait when they are voulnerable and show them kindness that will make them miss the relationship they had with you...0
Most Helpful Girl
I wouldn't want to have to "get" him to take me back. I would want him to want me back on his own. If he doesn't want to come back, then I would move on to bigger and better things... if you two truly love one another, it will work out the way it is supposed to... best of luck0