Why can't I get over the break up?

10 years and still not over... what's wrong with me?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • You just need to get laid! no shit the day after a breakup i go and find some sexy lady to take my mind off it.. granted i have not had strong feelings for any women so they are easy to replace.. But best of luck using my method!

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    • I'm a girl

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    • I'm so far emotionally fucked

    • i just said it helps to get your mind off it lol... and yes you are

Most Helpful Girl

  • Most people keep their pain raw by keeping pics etc . They feed their memories by reminiscing and holding onto thing of sentimental value. Plus, they still have contact somehow with their ex on social media. If this isn't the case , then maybe you should consider seeing a Therapist .

    People go through a grieving prossess after a breakup , but they move on after they reach the accpetance stage. You haven't , so you could have " complicated" or " unresolved" grief. Only a professional can help you let go and move on... If all else has failed

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What Guys Said 4

  • Ugh. Couple months is fine. Even a year is okay. 10 years? Go outside dude.

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  • Maybe you still want to be with him.

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  • 10 years? you won't find your answer here except i would suggest therapy

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  • I think you need a psychological evaluation

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What Girls Said 1

  • Have you had any other relationships since?

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    • yes plently long term too

    • Do you actually miss him or what you think you might have had with him?

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