My ex and I were together for 5 years. He became a drug addict and cheated on me. He did a lot of terrible things to me. When we split up he wouldn't leave me alone. For the past 5 months I hadn't heard anything from him.. then out of the blue he texted me... to say he's sorry and to be nice. I made it clear that I don't want to have contact with him. He said he just wants to be nice and if I want to talk or need anything I should contact him. Why? I feel like he's just using this as an excuse to talk to me so he can try to get back in my life. Am I wrong?
Most Helpful Guy
Ok it actually depends... some drug treatment programs will suggest that you seek forgiveness from those you have wronged/hurt.. This could be part of that however this does not sound like a person you would want back in your life beyond accepting the apology0
Most Helpful Girl
Maybe he's going through some kind of 12 step program for addicts in which one of the steps is to apologize to those you've hurt. Or just realizing he needed to apologize for treating you poorly. Accept it and move on in your life.0