so I'll try to abbreviate as much as possible, girlfriend cheated on me and the relationship got weird. We agreed we needed some time off and once we discussed again where it was going it was clear to me she wasn't fully invested and needed some time and I walked out and broke it off saying she could come back when she's ready and try again.
since then I've been an idiot trying to get her attention back etc etc. I seem pathetic to her right now but the other night she called drunk and said she loved me and wanted to take me back. I got a hold of her today and asked if she meant what she said. She said she really cares about me and is thinking about taking me back.
So I realize a lot of people will tell me ditch her altogether and most will say if she says she'll come back she will. But do you really think so? She obviously is a little precocious which is fine I am too. I think I need to stop contacting her all together and see if she comes back. I won't just wait for her but I've decided tonight I will not contact her again no matter how bad I want cuz I said ode give her the space she needs. How long do you guys think it'll be till she comes back if you think she even will.
All comments are welcome. Be as nasty as u want
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It seems that you're putting a lot more effort into this than she is. If she cheated, and you're the one who's willing to make it work despite her infidelity, then there's something wrong here.
What she probably thinks of this is that even though she cheated, you still love her whole-heartedly. She can see this as beneficial to her in the future by using you as her plan B because no matter what, you'll always be attracted to her. If her priority relationship fails, she can always fall back on you to love her, but she won't love you. She can then use you as a temporary replacement until she finds someone better.
I recommend that you get her out of your life, but you're entitled to do whatever you want with the information I've given you. You can choose to be used by her again, or you can find someone that will actually respect you for who you are and not cheat on you.0