The only breakups I've been through are ones where either my SO or I did something that resulted in a fight that ended in a breakup. With my boyfriend right now... suddenly I don't want to be with him. Nothing really happened which is why I'm not even sure breaking up is the right thing to do. I don't want to hurt him. We broke up before because of a big fight. We both hurt for a long time, and I don't want to do that to him again.
Most Helpful Guy
You can't. You can break up without being an ass about it, but it's still going to hurt the other person.1
Most Helpful Girl
The truth is, someone will be hurt. You just can't avoid it.2