I can't stop thinking about him, and it's been months. Sometimes when I'm bored I even get the urge to message him , what can I do?
he's cheated before so sometimes I think of that to help me get put off by him
Most Helpful Guy
I'm sorry he hurt so much you might try to keep yourself busy or look for another guy if you think you're up for it and also just realize if he cheated on you and now here you are without him he obviously wasn't right for you.2
Most Helpful Girl
I'm in the same boat girl except he was never my boyfriend just extremely close. I have sent him messages but I've told myself the NYE one was the last. I just wished him the best basically.
My advice would be Imagine yourself moving on and how great it would feel. Like close your eyes and visualise moving on, get a hobby, keep yourself busy, try not to look back (i struggle every day) and if u feel like your ready start thinking of a new guy to attract into your life what you would want him to be like and girl go out dating like I felt so good when I started dating again even though he didn't go on another date with me it was a good date and I'm more confident for another date with another guy. Lastly just focus on yourself and your goals I love to write out a list and tick them off to me improving myself and my life makes me happier than any guy ever good. Hope some of this helps and good luck chick1
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