Are you? And you just can't stop it?
Most Helpful Guy
At some point I lost complete touch with a very dear ex of mine (a former fiancee). She got married, moved away to a different place, and I realized one day that I had no way to get in touch whatsoever. I had no idea where she lived, she didn't use social media, I lost her phone number long ago, etc.
Even though I thought I was over her, following was days of utter depression where I realized in spite of all we shared, I might never even see her again, never even talk to her. I had some kind of distant dream that even though I had accepted we would never be lovers again, perhaps we could meet at some point years later and just talk as friends.
After that passed though, it was a liberating moment. I started to find more girls attractive around me, accepted that all that matters is the present and future, and I think that was the last hurdle to getting over her completely.1
Most Helpful Girl
Nah it's too hard to see.0