So... as some of you know, my boyfriend recently dumped me. He did it because he thought I was miserable, and didn't love him anymore. (I wasn't. It's just cuz of school. Schools been taking up all my time and I have time for nobody). That fuckin sucked. But I mean, it opened my eyes to our relationship. We had a bumpy start that kind of shifted everything around unpleasantly, and we both put too much thought into everything... so there's just so much tension since we're both overthinkers. But I love and adore him. I thought I couldn't ever truly love someone, but I'm completely and irretrievably in love with him. I can't see myself being with anyone else rn. We have so many good memories together..
He recently texted me saying he wants me back, but after we talked about how much work we had to put into the relationship, I guess it's completely over. He said he's moving on, but I still want to be with him. I'm just so fucking hurt and don't know what to do. I've never had to deal with anything like this before. I'm lost. I'm so confused cuz I want him back, but the things he said during our breakup really stuck with me. Should I try and get him back for good again, or move on?
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Most Helpful Guy
u r a beautiful person n when I say beautiful I mean u hv an awesome personality, u train for race events n maintain a good score at school and if ur ex can leave u for something like putting in efforts which every relationship needs then I think u should leave him n focus ur energy elsewhere! u deserve better! heartaches are normal at your age if they did not start from your left arm and worked its way to your chest coz if that happens u might have a cardiac arrest! happy if it helped ! 😊1
Most Helpful Girl
He is moving on and I think you should as well. Getting into a relationship is like applying for a job, do not apply if you are not ready to put in the work. One person cannot do all the work in a relationship. A relationship requires two people putting in the same amount of effort. Don't pour all of your heart into a relationship if your partner is not going to do the same. If I were in shoes and I have been before I would take the time to just focus on myself and reinvent myself. Find a new hobby that you enjoy or something that you have always wanted to do. Focus on your studies right now and don't side tracked. Surround yourself with positive people and friends and family. Just keep yourself busy and focus on what is in front of you. Focus on the present and not the past.1