We broke up 11 months ago now, but have seen each other about 4 times since. We did sleep together, which was a bad idea. He still wants to hold my hand and cuddle and kiss me on my forehead, like you would in a couple, but he doesn't want a relationship, I don't think. He's a bit of a loner and said he hasn't even been looking for anyone else. He says he is getting older though (33), but doesn't put effort into a relationship.
At the end of December I told him that I want to move forward, but he has contacted me since. The last time he said I look nice in my picture. We haven't seen each other in over 3 months now because I'm not seeing him. He wanted to go for a drink over Christmas, but clearly he doesn't love me or he would be with me, so why does he want to be intimate with me and cuddle all night? He got really upset when I started talking about some guy at work (who's a friend), but never says he wants me back. If sex is all he wants just go out and take some girl home then instead of going back to me. I told him where I stand 3 months ago.
Most Helpful Guy
He is comfortable with you since you have been in a relationship with him already so it's easier asking you then a random stranger.0
Most Helpful Girl
because he feels comfortable with you plus he doesn't even need to try. just block him so he won't bother you anymore0