I've been dating my boyfriend for over 2 years now. I think I've hit that point where I don't exactly see a future. I do love him very much and he feels the same. He has never done anything wrong, but he's younger than me and at a different point in life. I'm starting my career, graduated college and have an apartment. He's no where near graduation, still lives at home and I don't see us moving forward in our relationship for a very long time. I don't want to be held back.
I met someone at work and the fact that I have a lot of feelings for him shows that I shouldn't be in my relationship right now. I don't know how to go about this. It will break his heart. He treats me very well, but I don't want to wait around for him and miss life opportunities because of it. Please help!
Most Helpful Guy
this is really weird, you sound EXACTLY like this girl I have a giant crush on at work, everything you described besides the college, describes her, but i honestly would let him down, don't do it easy don't say we can still be friends, it's a bigger insult to a guy saying we can still be friends, and it may end up weird in the end! also not saying this as in because of if you were the girl I'm thinking of, but by the way I notice how much the girl likes me, if you are her, you are doing the best thing, because I'm treat my women amazing! but this is probably coincidence, but again you sound exactly like her!0
Most Helpful Girl
... if he's not worth waiting for, in your opinion, it means that your love for him has already died in you heart.
I dont know why you lost hope on him...
and by the way feelings for new people can appear. sometimes theyre just that... feelings...
Either way if you really think like that then you should really break up. But be honest about it.0