We were together for a long time, he was my best-friend and basically grew up together. Our relationship during the first 3 years we're the best. We had created a bond more different than anything I have ever felt, despite being young. His family and I really got along, and they had a deep respect for me due to my accomplishments and my sincere want for their son to have a good future. Over time, we moved in together and I slowly but surely turned into a nagging mother. I was no longer a girlfriend. I had to take care of us, and always make sure we were going to be able to pay our bills. I made a mistake and started talking to someone else, which he caught by the text messages. He was hurt, angry, and felt betrayed so he asked for time. I admit, during the next few days after he left... I would text him once a day. (I know, that was my mistake). Until I found out he was talking to his ex just two weeks after our break-up. I asked him and he just said they aren't even talking. I saw the messages, I know he's lying. So we met up and BOTH decided that this is it. I asked him one final time if I should wait, and he told me not to because what if he doesn't come back? I was okay with that. Until he send me a text asking for money. I know he needs it as he is heavily struggling financially... what do I do.
Am i stupid to think he's actually in need?