2 years ago I dated this guy for about a month. We were best friends for a long time before we dated, like brother and sister. Dating ruined our relationship. We never talk. He used to hate me for leaving him, but a few months ago I apologized (2 years later) and we talked everyday for a couple weeks. Just saying hi in the hallways and talking about my family. We talked just enough to get me hooked again. He's had a girlfriend for a few months, which is hard to get over. Spring break was last week, we didn't talk at all. He hasn't talked to me since we got back. In fact I think he is trying to avoid me. He doesn't even look or smile at me like he did just a week ago. I don't say anything to him, I don't want to look desperate, because I'm not. I don't know I guess I just miss what we had, how close we were. He even told me the other week he hasn't connected to anyone since we were together. We had the greatest chemistry. I know if we dated it might not work, I constantly think about him. I'm so sick of it. I just want to get over him and forget about it. It's making me so depressed.
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sorry for what happened.
you can't force him to change his behavior to treat you better. the relationship wasn't successful, both of you should accept what happened.
I know you miss him as a best friend, but you need to give him space to take his own responsibility for his life.
I went through the same experience... I remember that it was a difficult decision, but I decided not to be a wall between my best friend and her life.
now, she's happy with her new life, and I also happy that I did the right thing.
sometimes, some people just aren't meant to be together.