Hey guys, I really need some advise my heads a mess. I've been with my partner for 4 and half years.
I booked a holiday with him 4 weeks ago and we were as happy as ever. The past 3 weeks he has been really horrible to me calling me names like "dickhead" and making me cry and then not asking if I'm ok He also stopped hugging me and kissing me yet still had sex with me... He has decided he he just no longer wants to see me now, I'm devastated I've wasted nearly 5 years of my life on him and he can just walk away so easily without reason. What do you think it could be?
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You can speculate - and you will - on the possible causes of this failure and you will simply drive yourself crazy. The only thing that you know for sure is that he is handling this in an immature and disrespectful manner.
Tell him that if the relationship is over, you need him to say so, and then do NOT keep having sex with him. If it is over, you need to start "picking up the pieces" and getting yourself ready for the rest of your life; having sex with him just prolongs the breakup.
If he says that the relationship is NOT over, then tell him that you deserve an explanation for his conduct and nothing else will happen in the relationship until he provides that explanation.1
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