The guy I've liked way too long dated me and I must've messed up somewhere down the line because he left me after a week. He finds me 10 thousand percent unattractive but tries to be my friend. I see him chase after my friends and I don't want this to go on anymore. I once promised him we'd be in each others lives forever, but now all I do is cry. Should I break the promise?
- Stay his friend and heal slower38%(3)37%(7)Vote36%(4)
- Lose his friendship and heal faster62%(5)63%(12)Vote64%(7)
Most Helpful Guy
Keep the friendship 4 sure. Sometimes when u go out with someone it doesn't work out but sometimes as well if u keep. The friendship going u might turn out 2 b great friends it's happened 2 me. Keep the friendship going if it works out it works out if it doesn't it doesn't but at least u guy's have try anyway it's better than breaking up and not give friendship a go then it's playing on your mind.1
Most Helpful Girl
Break the promise. You have to look out for yourself! Your wellbeing and happiness should be your number 1 priority in life. He will understand this and respect your decision. If he doesn't his a jackass.
Being friends isn't going to help you move on either, its going to hold you back and hurt you. Trust me; I've been there. Best to look after yourself ❤1