I met this girl in late 2015, got her number, but then she told me she lived in another state. We still decided to text, and we ended up catching feelings and texting every day for several months (it was like we were in a relationship, but never official). I broke things up because I saw no future, despite still having feelings. She told me she loved me.
A few months later she texted me again. She wanted to be friends, but I was an asshole and I didn't treat her right, so she decided to confess and told me she still loved me and that she was planning on taking a trip to my town to see me in a few months, but after how I treated her, she called things off and told me to not reply to that text so she could finally move on.
Her last text was last August, but since then, I've been feeling guilty for the way I treated her. She didn't deserve it, but I was an asshole. I don't have any feelings. I don't want anything with her anymore, I just want to apologize to her and let her know that I still cared (and still do) despite acting like a total jerk.
Should I text her and apologize, or should I just forget about it and move on?
Most Helpful Girl
Ideally speaking, you should apologize. But its too late now. So apologizing her after an year would just dig up old memories which she has probably buried away.
Possibly she moved on. I think you'll be apologizing just for yourself-that is to make you guilt-free of treating her like that, and much less for her.
In that case I'd suggest to accept that you were asshole to her, forgive yourself and vow to never do it again to anyone. And then move on4
Most Helpful Guy
Text her, their is no harm in it and its good to clear up any remaining issues you may have with her. Worse case scenario she ignores you best case scenario you make her feel better and let her realize that you did not mean to be cruel. Either way their is no real downside to it.1