Long story short (kinda): I met a guy online, we fell in love, moved in together, I started working as a webcam model and lying to him about it for 8 months, finally told him, broke his heart but he decided to forgive me and move on. Our relationship was a roller coaster since then. I got pregnant just 6 months later, he is over the moon happy about it, everything is going great, then he signs up for a Craigslist account and is posting about seeking a friends with benefits relationship and has contacted a couple prostitutes, when I'm only 4 months pregnant. He proposes to me while doing this, I find out 2 months later about all of this and I move out - 150 miles away back home with my parents. He swears he has never physically cheated on me and I believe him. I cut him off from my life and my pregnancy, I even changed my number and deleted my Gmail account. I recently started talking to him again because he has served me with custody papers, our son is now a month old. Just today he starts telling me he has been working on being a better person, he has even sought counseling with a therapist. He wants us to go to couples counseling, he still cares for me, he'll always love me, he wants to be the man that I need, all he needs is one more chance, he's been miserable without me, etc. I'm so conflicted. I mean this guy is 33 and cheated on me while I'm pregnant with his child and uses the excuse it's because of what I did to him about the whole Webcamming thing but he promised to leave that behind and give me a second chance. I don't know what to do. I still love him and care for him but I'm still so hurt an betrayed by his actions. He told me to think about it and I said I would but really I'm just seeing red flags =/
What should I do?
What Guys Said 5
If you are seeing red flags, it'not a good sign that the two of you could be happy together.0
Yup alll red flags and excuses. Keep him an ex and only be cordial. I remember you don't want him involved with yoir child on another question. Try and move away back him to family if you can!0
what the holy shit have you gotten yourself into? this is one SHITSTORM of a relationship, dump his ass stop going back to that asshole he doesn't care about you, fucking blaming you for shit like nigga you the one who cheated tf0
what the fuck did I just read?
Anyways: End this BS.0
just fuck me better let's make web can so he can see0
What Girls Said 1
I don't think a cheater changes this easily , he may love you and your son, but that doesn't mean he will turn around and be faithful. Yes it wasn't right of you to lie about being a webcam model , but being a webcam model isn't sleeping with other men or trying to. he's using it as an excuse because he knows he was wrong. I wouldn't try again with this guy, you said yourself you see red flags. A cheater will say anything to get you back If they miss you, but they most likely won't change.1
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