My fiancé cheated on me last year with two other girls that looks similar to me. I found out when I asked him for permission to get on his social media accounts after I had been noticing him being busy over his phone while him and I are hanging out, on dates, hiking, walking, shopping, playing videogames, etc. My ex girlfriend was the one that convinced me to ask him because ever since I had a feeling about it. My ex girlfriend and I are good friends. She still have feelings for me since she was in 9th grade while I was a 10th grader. I'm in my second semester of college now and she's off to graduate high school.
My ex girlfriend had never hurt me physically and emotionally. But I hurt her feelings. I know, I sounded like a jerk for usually talking about my ex boyfriend with her. She felt not good enough because she asked me who were my female crushes in our high school. She told me she didn't feel pretty enough or have a better body than the other girls. I told her, "I'm with you because I love you. I would not cheat on you especially I love you so much the way you are. You don't have to change anything about you." I broke up with her because my mom could not accept me dating her. I was weak and I could not believe I did not fight for her. But I also did it because I was still not over my ex and I wish I had never fell for her while I still had a few feelings for my ex who done me wrong. Because my ex boyfriend impacted my life so much.
- Stay with himVote A
- Leave for herVote B
- Comment your opinionsVote C
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Neither. You said you dont like kissing girls , and that you like a girl for minutes to weeks. This is the exact issue that hurt your ex girlfriend. You didn't like or love her enough to stay or take her side against your moms opinions. Dont get with her and then only stay for a coupe of weeks and decide you'd rather be with a guy. At the same time , you're not happy with your boyfriend , he cheated on you and you're seriously considering leaving , it seems like you want your ex girlfriend as a back up plan or you don't want to be single so you want to go back to her. This isn't fair to her , I'd say leave the guy, stay single but still be close friends with your ex girlfriend , and if one day in the future your feelings are the same for her , then try things out.2