So my ex girlfriend who i was in love with for 4 years we broke up 5 months sgo, she cheated on me not sexually and put me through shit , like i was going through the toughest time already and she did that to me , it affected my academics, my career, everything went down hell from there. I don't want to get into details but throughout these 5 months she texts me every now and then and when I see her texts it ruins my day, and all I want is to call her and tell her that she is a terrible person and tell her how she made me feel and that she shouldn't text me again , so what do you think?
P. s. I had a very high chance of getting scholarships at uni, my GPA was very high but now every thing is ruined and so you should she has hurt me before, I got fired from my job etc..
She did apologise when we broke up but I just have the urge to call her and tell her everything she has done.
Thanks for your help.
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The problem with dumping a load of hostility on to your ex is that you probably want and expect them to care. Unfortunately they might not, regardless of any apology that they have offered you. It may not affect their life one bit. How much good would it do you if she just rejected everything you said? People who are freely able to do shitty things don't always have enough of a conscience to care about the impact, except for the few short moments after they are caught.
I would suggest trying to get this poison out of your system in your own ways, without trying to get a form of closure that you may never get. She's your ex now, she's not likely to be the solution to your ills.2
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