Things don't work out, the other person doesn't seem to care... but you get stuck, wondering why things didn't work out, wanting the truth, being so unsure of yourself.
Why do humans want closure?
I ask because I fell in love with a girl, I have no clue what actually happened between us, she won't give me a clear answer, I don't know the perfect thing to say, and I can't move on. I really want to know how she truly felt, If I'm just crazy or she did actually like me. Or just some piece of information that would help me move on.
Most Helpful Girl
For me, I need closure because Im too in tune with my or other peoples emotions. In other words, Im really sensitive. When I don't get closure or get a reason for why I need to suddenly leave a person I get sad. Sometimes it freaks me out for a few weeks and I get depressed. I guess technically people could deal with a few weeks of heartbreak, but I don't know. I guess closure just shortens things up and makes it less painful sometimes.0
Most Helpful Guy
Humans want closure, because it provides meaning and renewed purpose to an otherwise empty scenario.
The necessity of closure comes from the trust between the individuals. If this trust falters in thine own self or for another, then at times, it is easier for people to not realize that all the time spent actually means something, than it is to realize the suffering you will endure and have imparted on another that will develop a character more matched with the discontentment and void of life itself.0
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