It's been 6 months since she left and was already dating someone else. I've asked her kindly to pick up her furniture and she makes excuses. She even left two dogs for me to take care of. Asking what are my options without being an ass. There is no hatred, don't want to be used as storage.
What are my options with ex belongings at my place?
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I went through this with my ex.
If you can, try to get her belongings back to her. Send post and email letters with return receipts / proof of delivery and being read, and ask her to get her things. I would also check "abandoned property" laws in your area to see if you have any obligations about how her things must be discarded. If it's not too much effort, then box it up and drop it off on her front doorstep or with one of her close friends or family members. Otherwise look at how it can be discarded.
As for the dogs: tell her to get them, or else they can go up for adoption (i. e. petfinder. com, the local shelter, etc.).0
Tell her in a letter and send it by mail that requires her to sign for it. Set a date and if it is not gone by then, give it away. (Or throw it in the trash.)0
assuming you are in the usa, 90 days equals legal ownership in most states. considering you went to some effort to give it back, politely inform her that you will be selling all of her stuff if she doesn't come and get it in 5 days. after you give that grace period, sell her stuff and do what you want with the money seeing as you legally own the property.0
give that shit back in a box0
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