I want to get back together with my ex but usually he doesn't seem interested in getting back together, but sometimes he tells me yes he does want to get back together and he seems totally in. Then the next day I try to talk to him and he totally shuts me down. He has done this a few times. What does he want?
Why does he keep doing this?
What Guys Said 3
both of you don't know what you want and that makes things unclear.
the problem is that you accept to underestimate your value by making him take the decision to decide who you are and when you should be in his life, and that gives him a chance to treat you badly (low self-esteem).
Unfortunately, you know that relationship consuming your health, ruining your self-confidence and slowing your progress in life... so do the right thing and blame yourself for not doing the right thing.0
I doubt he seriously wants to get back with you due to the fact that he changes his mind. It could be that he kinda just says yes to get u off his back.
Maybe you shud try and find some1 else? It could be for the best.0
What Girls Said 6
He's playing games. Let him go.0
WHY would you want to be with someone who clearly does not care for you or value you in any way?0
sounds like he doesn't know what he wants himself. honestly I would stay away from him, as hard as that sounds. he needs to figure out himself and you would only be hurt in the process...0
let him go. whatever reason it is behind your break up, you have to give him that chance to test out the theory in his head. He will only think you're in his face.0
He definitely doesn't sound worth it tbh. Girl you deserve the best, and some guy being half interested isn't worth a minute of your precious time ❤0
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