He broke my heart but I still care...now he wants me back..what do I do!?
Okay so my ex cheated on me. It was a really messy situation in which he and his ex had never really cut things off completely, & then he got involved with me and decided to keep us both! Lots of lies involved but outside of that he was great & really sweet & I cared a lot for him. But anyway, this whole ordeal happened in December & we had stopped talking. Around May he sent me an apology message on FB & by this time I'm over it...forgive & forget..all that. So we kind of become friends again & text occasionally. But we took it to the next level when I tell him I'm leaving soon for college & he says he wants to see me b4 I go. So we meet at the mall, & he brings me a card, & some sugar cookies (his nickname 4 me & also a shirt of his. We spend ll of 5 min together & feelings come rushing back. This was on June 21st & we haven't stopped talking since then, he even drove two hours to come see me & take me out to eat. I tell him that our time together helped me realize that he's someone I want to keep in my life & that I wanna stay friends, & he says that's fine but he wants to work on a relationship. I agreed at first but began having second thoughts because I know that I don't trust him...& I'm not sure f he can be faithful although he tells me he will be. I tell him that we should just focus on being friends but he still says that he wants to be more. I just don't understand why, because he's definitely a ladies man & I don't think he can give up all the girls for me so why does he keep pushing a relationship? A part of me wants to give in but I can't let him hurt me like that again & I don't want to look stupid twice. What should I do? & do you think he's sincere about getting back together or just playing games..AGAIN? All opinions are welcomed!
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