Why do exes contact you out of the blue?

several months or even years in my case could have gone by but they still keep coming back?

i don't understand it because we haven't kept in contact, don't have any of the same friends.there would be no reason to contact me right? do they think they can get sex even though they went this long without even so much as a "hello"? I don't get it what is the reason behind that?

when we broke up he tried to get back with me later, and I said no. he told me that we couldn't be friends but now all of a sudden he does? GTFOH

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  • well there usually like three reasons.

    1 they miss you and just realized what they had

    2 trying to re kinddel the flame.

    3 or what we all assume the action