Ex apologized to me, what should I do?
my ex just left a letter on my doorstep saying:
"It’s been awhile since we’ve talked, and I can only say it’s my fault for that. You’ve been on my...
so I accepted his apology and he came to my house to talk about it. when he left he gave me a 20 second hig which was great! but when I went over to his house last night to borrow music, he acted completely different because he was with friends I didn't know and when he walked me to my car he almost left without giving me a hug. once I asked for one, it was such a crappy hug. like one you would give a stranger. what is up with him? and what should I do next?
P.S. I still have his cd case and
he would text me when he would be home so I could drop them off at his house.
i've finally decided to just play hard to get. I'm done playing these guessing games since he's being so confusing.
Most Helpful Guy
Call him. Definitely phone this one first.
What Guys Said 8
He said you deserve a man, yet he isn't acting like one in front of his friends. Apologies don't make that any better. If he's claiming to be a man, his apology and regard for you should take precedence over his image to these friends.
His actions in front of these friends were very childish. Also, if he gave you a weak hug that second time and no one was around to see it, what the heck? That's pretty weak. I think you should heed his word and look for a real man.
You can just call him up and start a casual conversation ..
You can just say Hi , What's up kinda things ..
And eventually get on to the main issue ..
It all depends on you if you wanna get back with him or no
he sounds honest, I say call him if you want. you do want to make things right? if so then talk to him and try to work things out. it's kinda giving me the feeling of talking to my ex again haha, she dumped me but I was angry and haven't spoke to her since. anyways! talk to him and see what happens :)
I believe that you already posted something similar to this question. Did he not do or say some immature stuff later on in front of his friends or something?
Sounds like he's embarrassed to do that sort of thing in front of his friends. Kinda like how a child would act, not a man.
hmm on second thought he sounds kinda immature. maybe moving on is best if you cannot be respected in front of his friends
Talking face to face is best. He sounds like he has a sweet and sincere soul. Give him a chance but at first keep some bounderies and afterward if you work things out stay hard on your limits and bounderies with any childish ways or tantrums. Men need love and they also need a good woman to help them stay goal orientated and morally grounded. There is no reason to wait a day or an hour. Talkl to him now and if it cannot be in person than do it on the phone. Good luck to you
What Girls Said 5
He's embarrassed because he had to admit that he was stupid but he doesn't want anyone to know because they will probably make fun of him. It's a guy thing.
He doesn't wanna get back togeather, he just didn't want you to hold a grudge against him. His actions are showing you again that he's still a boy and not a man
He sounds honest :)
But I don't recommend that you call/text right away. Give it a week or so. During this week, organize your thoughts about what you really want to tell him. Write your thoughts on a piece of paper. See what ruined your relationship and the stuff you didn't like about him & ..You too.
I don't want you to jump into love again because he left you a very nice letter..even if he means it. Be rational about it because, honestly, if things were great that much...why would you break-up in the first place.
After the week passes, call him and be nice. Tell him that you wish to talk through stuff. Meet up with him & talk :) Good luck!
I'm assuming he ended it? how long ago did your relationship end?
Aw that's so sweet of him its rare for guys to apologigize for their actions and mean it he means what he says I can tell :D lucky you talk to him but don't forget what he did and don't forgive him
Be very careful with him he did hurt you. Talk to him ask him why he waited so
long to give you the letter talk about the letter but don't act like you want him back right away because he will think your forgiving him I might sound mean but you have to protect your self he can't just walk in and out of your life and then expect to get back in again I have learned the hard way I almost gave a guy a 3rd chance but he wasent worth a 3rd chance I found out about another girl on the other hand he could be tarible at being in a relashionship but he may be a good friend to you but you never know
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