Me and my girl was going out for three and half years almost four years. Our relationship wasn't perfect like most relationship but it wasn't a dull...
Me and my girl was going out for three and half years almost four years. Our relationship wasn't perfect like most relationship but it wasn't a dull one either. We had some amazing times, I was the first guy she moved in with, I was practically the first guy she did a lot of things with. We were in love with each other. Where I messed up was sometime we would get into fights I would go out and talk to other girls just to make my girl jealous because I know how jealous she really was (but never the intentions of doing anything with them) did it just to make her jealous. We would get into fight about other things too so everything just adds up. I understand why I did and take take full responsibility for it and I realized that was very immature on my part but also I really want to be with this girl we just lack on some stuff that we need to work on and fix. I apologize a million times and literally pour my heart out to her and want to work things out again but she kept saying she don't know if she has anything else to give to me. Also she said there is another guy she's been going on dates with and she speak so proudly of him. So I don't know If she just saying all that stuff to pissed me off or just to make any suffer and felt the same pain that I put her through...but how could she move on so fast after been committed for three and half years plus? She told me she love me but been talking to him for like two months now so how could she move on so fast?
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In my opinion? It looks like she's moving on fast now that you see it, but she probably decided to more or less give up on the relationship and moved on a long, long time ago.
She might have moved on so fast, just becasue she was hurting too and she didint want to feel or go through the pain. Becasue you guys went out for such a long time she probably does still have that feeling for you. She just moved on to distract herself from the really dealing with her heart break and pains.
I'm in the same boat...I'm trying to figure it out too. I'm speaking from my experience that she may have been so tired of you treating her the way you were and maybe she was already checking out of the relationship before you broke up. I hope everything works out for you. Good Luck!