I have a dilema with 2 girls and I really need some advice?
please read before answering. and I would like honest sincere answers.
we have been chatting online for awhile now an I feel we have a...
im going to meet up with girl "B" to see what happens...it could be a " friend " thing or something more... I will never know unless I go...
Most Helpful Guy
Go for girl B. You have not put any time in with girl A (in person)..plus she's much too far away for something long term to work out. Sure...it could happen, but the odds are not in your favor. It's not against the law to talk to more than one girl at a time.Girl A is nothing but a cyber girl...nothing more at this point. I'm willing to bet she's talking or dating other guys. Go meet girl B and see how things go. You got incoming form girl B already, which is a sign of high interest level...go for it!
What Girls Said 8
Eh, it's only natural that you would feel a little bit bad. But maybe she recognizes that the idea of you two together isn't really plausible and won't be hurt at all! And who knows if you would even be compatible in person... You two could just have a beautiful friendship.
It sounds to me like "girl B" is a more logical choice given the history and distance convenience.
You feel that way because you really care about her, which is a good thing. Just feel out the situation, you don't know if girl B is going to be your soul mate she could be completely different.
I think that if you're not going to get something on the books with girl "A" then you need to move on. Having a virtual relationship or even a "vacation relationship" where you're just getting to see each other every few months is not very desirable.
Also, lets say you guys do meet up in a few months, and continue to meet up every few months from that point... there's still a long ways to go before anything significant can happen to where you technically need to be loyal to girl "A." Being faithful and honest is a really great quality to have, but being loyal to something that's non-existent is not very smart.
I'd say give girl "B" a chance and go get drinks with her. She may just be looking for friends instead of looking for a relationship with you... you never know!
You care about girl A and that's very sweet. I would still suggest going out with girl B for drinks, keep it casual and just get to know her again.
I met my current boyfriend online (we are now living together). I was testing the waters with other guys, being young and all, but I had feelings for him even before we met face-to-face. It was after we met that I threw all other options out the door because I had found my fire, my reason, the person I love more than life itself. I am glad I didn't continue test driving other guys because I would have missed out GREATLY if I had turned the one I am with down.
By the way, I lived in Canada, he lived in Germany, distance doesn't matter once you're in love. It may hurt to be apart, but when it's the right person, you'd wait forever.
ok really I'd usually say girl B because it's got a batter chance in the now, but what gets me is no where do you mention you care if you hurt girl B . you know why? because Ur in love wIthaca girl A. If I wassup you I'd meet girl A as soon as you could see if she's as great in person as she's when you two talk if she is maybe she's the one.I'm with Annie on this one..sometimes you can meet the love of your life online I met my husband on match.com and we are two very good looking busy people who lived on the opposite side of the uunited states. Things can happen of you want it bad enough.
You should go with girl B...even if girl A is great many long distance relationships don't work...my only thing is if You feel like a monster for doing something that makes you happy either girl A has made you feel guilty in some way or you really like her. I personally would go with B because you stand a better chance at it working out I'm the long run possibly ... but with that being said if letting girl A go is making you feel that bad maybe there is a reason.
while I would say girl B. how are you sure that girl A isn't the one? I understand that you don't have a relationship with her and it's virtual but did you guys like make a promise to focus on each other?
Girl be is there and available but do you have a connection with her? o for the one that makes you happy
What Guys Said 5
girl b doesn't sound definite yet, why don't you hang on to both of them for a bit and if girl b seems more like a real possibility than go back on deciding? Hope that makes sense for all of you.
I wish I have two girls in my life at the same time : (
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