hmmm. I'm going to be a bit naughty here. the fact that she cheated on you twice and now is worried that another woman is pulling you away is just plain selfish. that is a possessive type behavior. doesn't it tick you off that she's all over you now just because there is another girl making a play for you? it would me so here's the naughty part. you can either one just break it off with her and you probably already know its not going to be pretty. she's the type that's going to kick and scream and throw things. Or if you really want to teach her a lesson you can do the second which is, LOL, get a friends phone or several ppl's phones and text yourself all these sweet and naughty messages. Make sure you name the numbers female names so she will be inclined to snoop. She will think there are so many girls out there making a play for you and realize how good she's really got it and treat you like a king! you can choose however long you want this to go on and stay for awhile or break it off in a couple of weeks. Told you my answer was naughty! lol. If you do it, I wanna hear ALL about it! LOL. I actually did this to a guy once who cheated a couple of times. We both know why your staying. ;) Good Luck!
Even if you cheated on her, what's the goal? If you don't like your girlfriend anymore than break it off, it's not rocket science. Of course she's worried about you cheating, who actually wants to be cheated on? It's your own damn fault for taking her back why would you hold it against her then? Okay so she's got a record, it doesn't make it okay to return the favor. Be a big boy and break up.
Yet? It doesn't sound like you want to be with her. And after cheating 2 times you shouldn't be. Don't try and make her suffer to get back at her. You need to be the bigger person. If you want to do something with the other girl then break up.
Think about it...Since she did that to you; you two are completely disconnected, now you texting to another girl and nothing happened YET! It will happened honey, but before that, please just talk to your girlfriend and over it, that way you won't look the bad guy...I know...
Pick one, get rid of the other. If you were just casually dating them both it would be a different story but considering you are in a relationship with one of them, your only move is to chose one and dump the other.
Yeah you are one of those people that think that "oh because my partner has cheated on me before, I'm allowed to cheat on her/him." NO, because she cheated on you doesn't somehow justify you cheating on her back. If you cheat on her, then you are no better than her when she cheated on you.
If you know for an undeniable fact she cheated I say do it back to her, I strongly believe an eye for an eye an if she knows how awful it feels hopefully she won't do it again, either way id even the score then dump her and find someone that will treat you right an vice versa.
WITHOUT READING THE OTHER RESPONSE YET I'LL UST GO WITH WHAT I'VE READ IN YOUR POST ... IF SHE HAS CHEATED ON YOU 2 TIMES ALREADY AND YOU'VE FORGIVEN HER TWICE WHAT MAKES YOU THINK SHE'LL STOP // SHE'S ALREADY IN MY OPINION PROVEN SHE CAN'T BE TRUSTED. PLEASE WHAT EVER YOU DO DON'T STUPE TO HER LEVEL AND CHEAT ON HER... HOWEVER I WOULD SUGGEST YOU GETTING OUT OF THIS PRESENT RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE IT IS TOXIC ... THERE WILL NEVER BE ANY TOTAL TRUST BETWEEN YOU TWO ... ONCE TRUST IS BROKEN ITS VERY HARD TO MAINTAIN IT 100% AFTER THAT...
ANOTHER THING SOME WILL ACCUSE THEIR BF/SPOUSE OF CHEATING TO COVER THEIR TRACKS BECAUSE THEY ARE CHEATING ALREADY...
Let her keep thinking that you have gotten with the other girl. Your girlfriend has been using you as a confidence booster up until now. Since she thinks you have gotten with the other girl, she is more attracted to you now, so just be calm and something like nothins going on, she's just a friend...and start communicating with your girlfriend a little less. You might have been clingy which is why she cheated on you earlier, but your in a good spot now.
shes a confirmed cheater so decide if she is worth staying with or if you would like to try something new. I wouldn't care what she thinks and would have already left but you have to decide. from what you have written I think you should break up and go for the new girl...seems like this is what you want to do