Why am I still in this relationship?
it all started when we met online then we moved in together 3 months later because HE wanted too he got drunk and was super mean to me calling me... Show More
this is the worse I've gone through and I know there's still hope it can get better .. I just have to hang on and wish for it ..
if he continues to do this to me I will leave him people can only take so much and I've taken enough
Most Helpful Opinion
He has mental issues, leave ASAP. Leave all your broken sh*t there if you have to. But I'd just leave and never come back and never contact him again. The only reason you seem to be staying is because of fear. If that's the reason, then you need to conquer that fear by taking measures to keep it down. Surround yourself with your friends ( preferably some guy friends ) and if it comes down to it, the cops. But one thing is for sure, get the f*** out...You're the only one who can make yourself happy with the decisions you make in life. You only have one life to live, are you sure you want to spend it like this? Also, it wouldn't surprise me if that one life would be shortened by this guy of yours...
What Guys Said 6
i don't know you and him could always try councelling or sitting down with a neutral person to try and discuss what's right and what's wrong about this relationship . if your going to stay with him maybe make it clear to him the things you don't like him doing and that if he keeps doing them your going to have to leave
Please tell me you are kidding...
If not then you need to GET THE F*** OUT OF THERE NOW, and move back home. And if you have any bruises you need to CALL THE POLICE. Finally you need to GET A RESTRAINING ORDER!
It's because you like drama.
The title says it all. Why are you still in this relationship? It's not going to get better. No matter how often he says he loves you he still isn't treating you with love. If he hits you call the police! If he destroys your personal property call the police! Get out before something even worse happens!
Nope, I can't help you, time for the battered women hotline! <3
What Girls Said 3
You're in denial. it doens't matter how "much more there to this story". Your story is not unique. You're another statistic amongst the many number of battered women in this world Even if you try to convince us that he's a nice guy 98% of the time and only a crazy woman beating violent maniac 2% of the time. That 2% is still enough reason to leave him. Cause one day that 2% could kill you.
Stop making excuses for him and get out. Nothing is worth the emotional, mental and physical losses you sustain during the abuse.
Someone who hits you and destroys your things does not love you. They just love controlling you and making you do things that you don't want to do, because it makes them feel powerful.
You need to leave, report him to the police and get a restraining order. If you have any bruises on your body, you can use them as evidence to get him thrown in jail.
Then you need to seek counseling and support of friends and family because that will help you heal and recover your self-esteem and dignity. Good-luck and take care.
You need to leave him ASAP. Find a time when he won't be around to stop you and call a friend (even if they aren't close to you anymore they'd be sensitive in this situation and help you out) and go to there house and call the police because he needs to be arrested. Or just don't go home and go to someone's house and call the police. Him calling you 1000x is way better than him hitting you 1000x. Turn your phone off and use someone else's to call the police. You really need to get out of there before he kills you. Don't try to bring anything, things can be replaced and it will only slow you down.