Is my ex-boyfriend completely over me or does he still have feelings for me?
My ex-boyfriend of 2 years just broke up with me 7 months ago. He said it was because he didn't want someone in his life right now who cares about him so much. He just turned 21 and I turn 23 soon. We didn't talk at all(text or call)not once for 3 straight months and finally saw each other for the 1st time beginning of nov. Since nov, we texted prob once a month. However last week, I finally got up the courage to confront him at school and ask him if he's uncomfortable around me or just doesn't want to talk to me, and he said yes. He said he's completely over me, is not attracted to me whatsoever and can't see himself with me in his future anymore. That wasn't the case (not once) in our entire relationship with each other. He has asked me to marry him one day and that basically sums up how serious we were about each other. Anyway, this last week after I confronted him, I said I at least want to have him as my friend again because we were best friends before we started dating. and he said yes he would like that too, and so that was taken care. He then asks if I want to check out his new car and we take a drive, come back to the college and start making out and everything, and it was amazing. The next day he texts me, which was the most we had talked (with just those 2 days) combined with the last 7 months. The other day we meet up at night and end up having sex and kissing and everything imaginable. It was incredible and at the end, he asked how I was doing and I said I'm doing just fine and he said he just wanted to make sure because he doesn't want me to feel bad that we are now "friends with benefits" and that he still doesn't feel anything for me again and nothing has change.
Guys and girls-please give me some feedback as to what you think is going on. Is he scared that he might still have feelings for me or is he just being a "man" and is just wanting to do this because its with someone he's had experience with it and trusts? Don't get me wrong, he's an incredible person with a lot of pride in his family, very driven with his full time school and is extremely focused on his job and getting the best career for his future. But I would just like some advice or feedback as to what this looks like so far. I can't tell if he's still totally over me, even though he's not denying wanting to kiss me and all that other stuff. Is he just being macho or could there still be something still there that he just won't admit? Thanks.
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