I'm 19 and I've never had a boyfriend. I'm pretty, smart, and nice. Guys always say I'm TOO nice, whatever that means. Why is it that nice girls like me cannot get boyfriends but slutty girls are always with someone? Why are college guys so shallow and only think with their penis'? And will they EVER grow out of it (before contracting an STD from their slutty gfs)?
Ok so this is basicly it in a nut shell, most guys think with their d***s but remember that not all guys are like this and some day you will find somebody like that.
basically every guy at this young age wants good sex life in relationship,.if he gets satisfied he migth never broke up that relationship..i know that's insanre from girls point of view... why only guys acts like pervert?why girls never been very very curios abt sex like guys wants?today I m going to reveal the secret...i did lots of reseach and tried to find the answer and everything its natural and biological...trust me this is the only reason why guys are unstable... a baby takes 9 months to get completely develop in mother...in this period there are lots of biological and hormonal changes that occurs... Female body is made of X chromosone from male parent and X chrommosone from female parent so Female body = X+X= XX...so its completely stable whereas male body is made of X chromosone from female parent and Y chrommosone from male parent so Male body=X+Y = XY ...which is not at all stable so male always try to do something which could make him stable...thats the reason we guys always feel lusty looking at hot girls...we always find to make ourself stable ...in short we need X+X to make stable...so 24/7 we think about getting laid...whenever a guy c a girl his blood start flowing due to unstability and all think he about is sex in opposite girls never think like this way due to there stability and that's the reason they want there boyfriend or anyone to listen there problem and feelings not to provide solution...this guys they don't understand since they are unstable they try to give solution and try to prove something which they are not... ulatimately the answer of ur question is that guys goes to real slutty girls who could make them stable,... its all creation of god which cannot be change so male= XY is normal ... male who have characters like female have defect in there chromosone level and act different... so girls don't worry and try to figure out problems talking to ur friends i wish next life I would be girl atlist I will be stable
My friends always ask me that question, why do you always go for the sluts, the answer lies in the question, because they're sluts and they're easy to get into bed and you don't have to worry about calling them ever again because they prob won't call you ever again. Nice girls or good girls is what a guy wants but they tend to be prude and sometimes virgins, if we out looking for sex we want the slutty ones, but if we are looking for a girlfriend we go for the nice ones down fall is they take a while to sleep with you.
Guys want nice women, but we want sex even more. Guys don't want to try for a girl if he can't see sex on the horizon, so we don't like women who seem "goody-two-shoes" or "above" having sex during a relationship. This reminds me of the way women pass up all the passive guys, because they want a guy who will be assertive and will get things going in their relationship.
The answer is to be nice and open to having fun, being able to joke about sex but not do it because you're constantly depressed or insecure.
However, you might not actually be pretty, so that could be the problem. Some people can never get the truth from other people so they think they're are pretty way too long before they realize what the problem is.
Another problem might be that you want the wrong guys, who go for the wrong girls, I just asked a question on what type of guy smart, nice, attractive women want, so maybe you don't want guys mature enough to like normal relationships?
Nice girls can get boyfriends, and I have no doubt that you when you find someone to be in a relationship with, it will be very fullfilling and rewarding.
As for guys that age only thinking with thir penis,... well, guys at that age are going through their sexual prime,... I didn't even realize I had a head on my shoulders until about a year ago (good thing too, it usually has much better ideas).
Be who you are, and don't worry about changing for people, and you will find what makes you happy.
Well you are totally right but the sad thing is that girls mature faster than guys. Understand that we are mentally defficient at times. Everyone knows that women can reason better than men, and those women that don't are the sluts. So don't be down on yourself, consider yourself lucky that you are not grouped with the morons.
From what you are saying can I then conclude that younger men must then be man whores? And if as adults we reach a point of ultimite maturity then would not men be just as mature as women thier age eventually??? lol. - More than a year ago
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Some guys want nice girls. Some guys just think with their penises too much and need an ego boost so they go to 'easy targets'. Sluts are easily available and want the attention and so they give in easier than a "nice" (the girls who are hard to get because they don't just give themselves physically) girl.
The slutty girls may not even have a boyfriend so don't think they are with someone... they are just with someone for a day/night. I knew a girl who was labeled a slut and she had men but they didn't want her as a relationship type of girl because they knew of what she did. So think of it that way... Those slutty girls can't be shown to their parents, family, and good friends who might judge her. They are not worthy to be shown as a trophy, only as a good sex toy.
I think some men never truly grow out of it. I think some men can while others are still turned on by slutty behavior even as older men. All I can figure is that people enjoy being desirable. Perhaps if someone doesn't feel they are desirable then they are more likely to be turned on by advances that come quickly and "guaranteed". I think it's a confidence issue.
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