Well thought in a past relationship, I have broken up but it was really some something very serious he did (more than cheating). I get the feeling that unless it's something bad such as cheating, getting abused or as bad as lying during the whole relationship about loving you, we tend to want to work things out first and then decide if it's worth our time.
Many guys tend to break up over almost every single type of thing they considered as being disrespectful, if it's something insignificant. Or they the woman makes the same mistake a second time (nothing to do with cheating), he's more likely to already break up than vice-versa. I get that guys generally don't like drama nor little plots, but it's like they give up too fast for any little disrespect whereas women put up with so much more.
I have never seen in my life a guy who isn't married putting up with a lot of drama from a girl.
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Well for me it is about respect. If she does not respect me how can we have any kind of relationship. Why would she even want to be in a relationship with a guy she does not respect. but I am a very different kind of guy. I have only dated 9 women in my life (I am 45). I was with my wife for 25 years until she divorced me. I started dating 1.5 months ago and have gone out with 4 women. I ended a relationship for the first time ever with the 2nd woman I dated. I have never broken up with a woman before. either we never made it to a 2nd date or they always dumped me. and it was because I just had no connection with her. In a week we had 4 dates and sex on the 3rd and 4th date and I still didn't feel any kind of connection. sO I knew if I continued to see her it would have just been for sex. i couldn't do it. I am with an amazing woman right now. So I am taking this very slow. we have had 4 dates. we kiss. as a matter of fact she kissed me for our first kiss on our 2nd date. that was very nice. I am hoping we are together a long time.1
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