I've just had terrible luck with dating. I didn't really care about it in high school, but started becoming interested a couple years ago. I've actively been trying online dating for a little over a year now. I've met a few guys... a handful only stay online. A few met me in real life, but only stayed interested for a couple dates, then things fizzled out.
When it starts out, I feel like I've found a great match, but they always lose interest, cut contact, etc.
How can I deal with this? I feel so lonely and can't seem to find the right kind of guy who will stick around for a while. Trying to meet people the traditional way is tough for me because I'm really quiet and don't have a ton of hobbies, so I don't really know where to go to meet people.
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I can relate, I find it hard to meet people too and have been single for a long time. It's not easy and nobody else feels your pain. What I have done is tried my best to have a fulfilling life anyway partner or no partner. Travel, get hobbies, do something wacky. Relationships take up a lot of time and energy, right now you are free. Fill your life with interesting things. That's what I do and it really helps.1