you wouldn't pay $ to talk to someone irl so why should you online?
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Don't do it unless it's a special interest site with a whole lot of credibility. Do not use match.com or any other generic pay site.
Pay sites suffer from the following:
Many of the poor sites resort to fake profiles and program these fake profiles to "send you messages."
The "legit" pay sites are full of free profiles that can read your message but not reply unless they pay as well. So you can basically be sending messages to non-paying members who have no interest in paying.
The rest I name all happen on the free sites as well.
Women will not meet you. You'll email all the time but once you want to meet she chokes and stops replying.
The women are completely paranoid that you are a sex fiend.
Many of these women also have social anxiety issues which is why they use the internet hoping to meet someone.0