Guys how did you overcome your fear of approaching women? Is there a way to make this simple without being do nervous? Thank you
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You have to learn how to be relaxed first. Really relaxed. I mean you're sitting at home on the couch relaxed, but you're actually in a crowded venue. So I'd say the first step is to just absolutely relax and let nothing bother you. You can't let stuff bother you because you yourself are the reason you came to whatever place you've found yourself in.
Another good try I found was to let go of unnecessary fears we have. You'll find that a lot of people are just as afraid as yourself... you ever tried just looking at someone and then slowly looking away? It's that gaze of (there's no reason I can't look and it's not like I'm being intense or hostile). Once you start to just gaze at people, maybe you're walking down the street, giving people a genuine smile, it just makes you feel more at ease when starting conversations with people.
Remember that a lot of girls, especially in clubs and bars, are already on the defensive subconsciously, so even if you look your greatest and your approach was friendly, they'll still turn you down. That might bother you but, this shit happens to most people approaching other people. The difference is you've got to know it didn't mean anything, it just means you're going to try talking to someone else.
Just some thoughts. Hope it gives0