I'm worried about myself on the dating market. My boyfriend of 5 years broke it off the other day because of his parents divorce and "he doesn't think he can ever love or commit again". He was my high school sweetheart and we really loved each other but still. I'm 5'8, African American and I play a lot of sports. I love the walking dead, video games, and reading. I also have a personal relationship with God and intend to keep myself for marriage. What does that do for me in the dating market?
P.S. I have a hard time bc most guys of my own race who don't know me find me "odd" (say I act white? whatever that means) and other guys outside of my race don't approach me.
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You sound very dateable to me!
As far as guys not approaching you, as a guy I'll tell you that it gets our attention when a girl shows interest in us. Suddenly she comes off as interesting and attractive more so than the other girls. Unfortunately most girls are not willing to take any initiative at all to show they have an interest in a guy. Give it a try, I think you'll be pleasantly surprised.
Out of curiosity, what does it mean for an African American girl to "act white"? Sounds pretty racist to me and I would think you wouldn't want to be with those kinds of guys anyway.0
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