Over the years this girl and I have become best friends. I always went to talk to after a bad breakup or a fight. She never failed to cheer me up. But I never realized how much I was hurting her by talking to her about all of my dating problems. Because I didn't know that my best friend was madly in love with me.
She was always so good at hiding it. But one night about 3 months ago I had a really bad breakup and went to her place. We got pretty drunk and everything came out. She kissed me and broke down crying.
Then she confessed that she had been wanting to do that ever since the day we met but she knew that I wouldn't feel the same way so she settled for being my best friend instead. She started apologizing for kissing me but I stopped her with a kiss and we ended up having the most amazing sex. And I realized that night that I was in love with her too. I don't care if people keep telling me that I can do better because I love her more than any other girl I've been with even though they were more attractive.
Sorry for the long back story but I thought it was important. Here's the question
Last night we were at a bar and when she went to the restroom this drunk hot girl saw that as her chance to steal me from her. She sat in her seat and asked me why I was with her when I could clearly do better. I told her to leave before she came back but instead she kissed me just as my girlfriend was coming out of the bathroom. I pushed her away as fast as I could but she saw the kiss and ran outside crying.
She knows that the kiss was forced on me but she still wants to break up because she doesn't feel like she's good enough for me. It's not true at all but other girls are making her feel like that because they try to flirt with me while I'm with her. I never flirt back but she just feels insecure because it keeps happening.
How can I make her know that I will never cheat on her? I've never loved anyone like this before.
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First of all, I think she is a very lucky girl! More than anything, you sound like you really love her and care about your relationship. It couldn't get better.
You need to compliment her, and not only when you are alone but in front of others too. If not verbally, just put your arm around her waist or just hold her hand, keep giving her sweet kisses on her cheeks. When other girls flirt with you, make sure you pointedly ignore them while keeping your eyes fixed on your girl to make her feel that there is no one but her in your life.
Keep telling her she is beautiful and smart..etc. She needs assurance and only you can give her that.1