I'm 26 and I have been driving the same car since I was 17. ( it's rusting now but never gave me a problem..Ever ). I'm 1 class from my 2 year of generals and 2 classes from my 2 year in Graphic Design. Wanted to transfer for a 4 year. I recently moved in with my friends family to focus on school ( I never had a family of my own and been on my own since 18 ).
I don't party.. I go to concerts. I play guitar and it being my second passion next to design. My design work even though im in school has gotten recognized by some of my favorite bands and even Game studios.
But I feel like a loser. My friends who skipped college to join the army all have nicer cars, a home of their own and so on... I dont feel like I have anything and coming up to 30 I feel like going to college pretty much forced me into the position of "living at home at 30".
I do exercise ( not fat ), I dont dress like a punk or anything. While I am a "geek" im in nooo way in the stereotype hipster stuff. But i feel like my life is a dead in. I still have not found anyone special.. Dont have kids or anything.
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The army has really good benefits. People see the salaries but forget about the absolutely insane benefits it has like paid schooling, food allowances, and so on. The salaries look like it's low paying to people but when you have so many benefits, they get to keep the cash and not have to spend it like other people do.
If you're pursuing a major that has a lot of employment opportunities you're just "paying your dues" so to say and are going to end up fine.
If you're meeting women are judging you and thinking that you "don't add up" to other guys they need to take a look in the mirror and realize they're self-entitled. I see so many guys who parties and have DWI's, relationship problems, and so on.
Based on your update I just think you're struggling with dating and have some experiences that will just take some time to recover from.0