So there’s the is guy I’ve been talking to online and this is what his post says:
I happen 2 b 1 of those exceptionally nice guys.
I am looking for serious, thoughtful & a genuine relationship.
Im a native N.Y.’er, Im Italian, I care & I'm very thoughtful (put me to the test); I have a BS in Criminal justice & I drive, Im looking for a nice well rounded girl, I do practice chivalry in my actions ( I actually hold doors, pull chairs out, hold ur jacket for u to get in 2 & so forth)… I am a supportive guy & will stick w/u through ur best & worst times; u can run 2 me anytime w/out worry of being hurt.
Spur of the moment things & non-occasion gifts 2 & from each other, late night calls, heartwarming text messages & just the feeling of we are there 4 each other.
Most guys will not say this I’m looking for a REAL relationship
NOT looking for hook up’s.
I want & WILL love someone 4 the good & bad qualities.
( We as people, & a species, r not perfect.)
I also love 2 give & receive affection (holding hands, PDAs & so forth…) Im an honest & open person & don’t play games.
Don’ be shy I don’t bite & Im NOT a bully. I actually despise bullies.
Id prefer y in a hoodie & sweats.
I don’t fall in love easy, but when I do, I really fall in love. I would rather b by myself than just settle for being w/someone.
Im sure u girls read the same stuff & think that all guys are the same; Im not, Im actually a decent person. I have 2 sisters I wouldn't want hurt or have them go out w/jerks; therefore I am not 1 of those jerks. If I send u a message its because Im genuinely interested in u & NOT looking 4 games nor do I fire off 1,001 copy & paste messages.
LOVE Apple picking in the Fall. Pumpkins work 2.
u like cuddling, kissing, going out to dinner with a nice glass of wine, & slow dancing 2 a romantic song…by all means contact me.
Most Helpful Girl
If you haven't even had one date and he's mentioned sex. That says he wants sex. Most guys online are creeps. Some aren't though. Just like when you meet someone in day to day life. Some are after one thing. A rare few aren't. Just got to filter through and look for red flags. They would be phone calls late, short notice meeting up, asking for dirty pics, mentioning sexual stuff very early on, guy not asking about you or your personal life etc? Also inviting you to his place and not wanting to go out in public shows he wants one thing. Be weary :)1
- Show AllShow Less